Grr

I try not to let my family get to me. I really do.

My 'aunt' (a family friend, but I have called her aunt for ages), has taken it upon herself to remind me:
1. I don't cook for the household (Because my cooking sucks. And it's faster to let my parents have their way in the kitchen, then argue over it.)

2. I 'don't help enough around the house.' (I'm not a mind reader. Some chores, my parents prefer to do themselves. I help, always when I'm asked.)

I do not need a second mother. My sister in law pulls this bullshit sometimes, and it drives me nuts. She (SIL) is 3 years older than me. I don't think that's enough to say she should act like my mom. My 'aunt' hasn't seen me since I was 14. She hears from my mom when my mom needs someone to blow steam at.

Unfortunately, this means my aunt only hears the negative parts about homelife here, and nothing good about me. So at 23, she assumes I'm as lazy and stupid, as I was at 14.