Blowing off Steam

I had a lady who cancelled my membership a few months ago. My site didn't follow her terms, which weren't updated, til the day she cancelled my membership..

My site wasn't 'active', even though I'd updated, redone and was still working on putting more on it since I'd gotten back to pixelling. Because my membership area is a forum (Free area by the way, same as this lady's was.) and not authpro or bravenet's members login, my membership was lost.

I was annoyed by this at first, since I'd never once been judged on having a forum membership. It'd been a forum membership when I'd JOINED, and she knew it then.

Now, she's recently come to me, accusing me of using her graphics in my area and wanting to be logged into my site.

Why the hell should I have to let someone in MY site, who's taken me off of their own? Does this seem like bs to anyone else? I've deleted any graphics on my hard drive, as I hadn't once yet, gotten a chance to use them since getting my new laptop and finding my way back to my memberships. So I've none of her graphics. Some of her members are my own, they've also vouched for me, that I've none of her items.

I do not understand how anyone could be such a petty person. Other 'popular' sites (sorry gals) that I'm friends with, even agreed that if it was a setup how I'm comfortable with for the members area, they wouldn't take away my membership. I've got the forum set, that if you do not email me first to tell me you've registered, or plan on registering, I do not approve your account when you do.

You can see NONE of the graphics when you first come to the members area, because only my members, get the graphics.

It's the same concept in forum form. WTH?